WEEK 10.2 (MARCH 5TH-11TH) – Don’t allow poison to take over
Mantra “May clarity guide my vision, may compassion anchor my heart, and may wisdom help me let go.”
TOPIC 1: THE LENS OF THE MIND – CHANGING YOUR INNER WORLD TO CHANGE THE OUTER WORLD
Metaphor: The Tinted Glasses
Imagine you have a row of sunglasses in front of you, each with a different-colored lens. One pair has lenses so dark that the whole world looks gloomy. Another is scratched, making everything appear distorted. There’s a bright pink pair that turns every view overly sweet, as if no challenges exist. Then there’s the clear-lens pair—letting you see the world just as it is, in its genuine beauty and possibility.
Now, you get to choose which glasses you’ll wear for today’s adventure. Whichever pair you pick shapes how you experience everything around you. In much the same way, your mindset colors your entire day. If your thoughts are clouded with self-doubt or resentment, the world mirrors that negativity. But if you cultivate clarity and compassion, you see life’s natural brightness everywhere you look..
Reflection: Shifting from Negativity to Clarity
Buddhism teaches that the mind is like a mirror—it reflects whatever we place before it. If we constantly think, “Life is unfair,” we’ll see evidence of unfairness everywhere. By shifting to more compassionate and open-hearted thoughts, our experience of life transforms. Self-doubt can soften into self-compassion; resentment can melt into gratitude; fear can dissolve when we remember what is actually true in this moment.
Our inner mindset extends beyond ourselves. When we judge ourselves harshly, we become harsh with others. Practicing self-kindness naturally leads to kindness toward everyone around us. Remember: we don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.
Call to Action
Today, pay close attention to the thoughts you entertain. Are they helping you see the world clearly and kindly, or are they distorting your perception? Take one negative thought and reframe it with a more compassionate perspective.
Quotes to Reinforce the Message
“The mind is everything. What you think you become.” – Buddha
“You see the world not as it is, but as you are.” – Anaïs Nin
“Your perception of me is a reflection of you; my reaction to you is an awareness of me.” – Unknown
“If you correct your mind, the rest of your life will fall into place.” – Lao Tzu
“Happiness depends on your mindset and attitude.” – Roy T. Bennett
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TOPIC 2: PLUGGING THE LEAKS – OVERCOMING THE THREE POISONS
Metaphor: A Leaking Boat in Troubled Waters
Picture yourself in a boat on a vast ocean. Looking down at your feet, you begin to notice water leaking in—slowly at first, and decide to ignore it. But eventually the leak is increasing and your boat is quickly filling up with enough water to threaten sinking. In Buddhism, these leaks are the three poisons: greed, anger, and ignorance. They steadily fill our minds with negativity, weighing us down. But there are tools to keep the boat afloat, the Buddhist called them “antidotes”: generosity patches greed, compassion bails out anger, and wisdom prevents ignorance from flooding in.
Reflection: Keeping Your Mind Afloat
Left unchecked, greed makes us restless, anger clouds our hearts with bitterness, and ignorance blinds us to how harmful these emotions can be. But each act of generosity seals greed’s gap; meeting anger with compassion bails out the boat before we sink; cultivating wisdom means we’re no longer tossed around by ignorance.
This applies to how we see ourselves and others. Judging or criticizing adds unnecessary weight to our boat. Often, what frustrates us in others reflects unresolved issues within ourselves. Recognizing these leaks early and addressing them is key to sailing smoothly toward inner peace.
Call to Action
Tonight, visualize your mind as a boat. What “leaks” are letting in negativity? Instead of ignoring them, use generosity, compassion, and wisdom to keep yourself afloat and at ease.
Quotes to Reinforce the Message
“Greed is like sea water: the more we drink, the thirstier we become.” – Arthur Schopenhauer
“Ignorance is not the absence of knowledge, but the refusal to seek it.” – Buddhist Teaching
“A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor.” – Franklin D. Roosevelt
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TOPIC 3: CHANGING TRACKS – THE POWER OF RECOGNIZING WHEN TO LET GO
Metaphor: Getting Off the Wrong Train
Imagine you’re on a train, thinking you’re heading the right way. Suddenly, you realize it’s the wrong train. You hesitate—maybe you can adapt, maybe going back is too difficult. But the longer you stay, the further you drift from where you truly need to be. Life can be like that: whether it’s a toxic relationship, a draining job, or a mindset rooted in negativity, remaining on the wrong path only leads us further from our peace. Recognizing the wrong direction is wisdom; stepping off and changing course as soons as possible is freedom.
Reflection: Knowing When to Step Off
We often stay in unhelpful situations out of fear, attachment, or pride—telling ourselves we’ve already invested too much to walk away. But you can’t reach the right destination by staying on the wrong train. This wisdom applies to our inner landscape too. When stuck in spirals of self-doubt, anger, or anxiety, remember you can get off that train at any moment. Replacing fear with trust, anger with compassion, or doubt with self-belief guides you back to a place of calm.
The longer we remain somewhere we don’t belong, the harder it is to return to ourselves. Yet we can always choose a new direction. The moment we realize we’re going the wrong way, we’re empowered to step off, recalibrate, and move toward our true home in peace and clarity.
Call to Action
Today, reflect on any “wrong trains” you might still be on—whether it’s a habit, mindset, or situation that no longer serves you. How can you begin stepping off at the next opportunity?
Quotes to Reinforce the Message
“You are always one decision away from a totally different life.” – Unknown
“When you realize you’re on the wrong road, turn back.” – Zen Proverb
“Do not be afraid of changing direction. Be afraid of standing still in the wrong place.” – Unknown
“Let go or be dragged.” – Zen Saying
“It is not too late to be what you might have been.” – George Eliot
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TOPIC 4: LETTING GO – RELEASING WHAT NO LONGER SERVES YOU
Metaphor: The Unnecessary Umbrella
Imagine being caught in a downpour. You open your umbrella, grateful for the shelter. But once the rain stops and the sun comes out, carrying that umbrella becomes a burden. It has served its purpose, yet you keep holding on, out of habit or attachment. Life often works the same way. Certain thoughts, beliefs, or relationships serve us for a time. When they no longer do, clinging to them only weighs us down.
Reflection: Releasing What No Longer Serves You
Many of us carry emotional “umbrellas” long after the storm has passed—like grudges, old fears, or identities we’ve outgrown. Buddhism reminds us of impermanence: everything changes, and holding tightly to what’s no longer necessary creates suffering. Recognizing when something has fulfilled its purpose allows us to set it aside with gratitude rather than regret.
Ask yourself: Am I still carrying an umbrella even though the rain has stopped?
Call to Action
Today, think about one thing—be it a habit, a belief, or a past hurt—that has outlived its usefulness. Imagine gently setting it down. Feel the lightness that follows, and notice what new space and energy opens up for something more positive.
Quotes to Reinforce the Message
“When the soul is ready to let go, what once felt like protection becomes a prison.” – Unknown
“You can only lose what you cling to.” – Buddha
“Holding on is believing there’s only a past; letting go is knowing there’s a future.” – Daphne Rose Kingma
“Some people think holding on makes them strong, but sometimes it is letting go.” – Hermann Hesse
“To let go does not mean to get rid of. To let go means to let be. When we let be with compassion, things come and go on their own.” – Jack Kornfield
BACK UP TOPIC
Metaphor: The Backpack of Life
Imagine life as a journey where we carry a backpack. When we are young, our backpack is light, and we eagerly look for things to fill it—new toys, experiences, and achievements. As we grow, the backpack gets heavier with all the things we’ve collected—responsibilities, possessions, and attachments. Then, as we age, we realize the weight is slowing us down, and we start unpacking, keeping only what truly matters: love, wisdom, and connection.
Reflection: The Evolution of What Matters
There is a natural rhythm to life, and with each stage, our desires shift. As children, we crave things—new toys, new clothes, new gadgets. As adults, we collect them—bigger houses, better cars, more possessions. Then, as we age, we begin to see the burden of our accumulation, and our focus turns to letting go, simplifying, and prioritizing relationships over material things.
This shift is not just about physical possessions but also about emotional and mental baggage. The things we once held onto so tightly—grudges, expectations, fears—no longer serve us. The greatest freedom comes not in gaining more, but in releasing what no longer holds meaning.
Take a moment to reflect: What are you carrying that is no longer necessary? Can you start letting go now, rather than waiting until later?
Quotes to Reinforce the Message
“The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak.” — Hans Hofmann
“Possessions are merely things, and things can’t bring lasting happiness.” — Dalai Lama
“We spend the first half of our lives accumulating things and the second half trying to get rid of them.” — Unknown
“The more you have, the more you are occupied. The less you have, the more free you are.” — Mother Teresa
“You only lose what you cling to.” — Buddha
Call to Action
Take a step toward lightening your load. Look around—what can you release today? Maybe it’s a physical object, an old belief, or a past resentment. The sooner we let go, the freer we become.
“The most powerful weapon on earth is the human soul on fire.”
“Imagine your soul as an eternal flame within the lantern of your being. Allow your smile to transform the world without letting the world dim that radiance.
Honoring your body, mind, and spirit is not just an act; it’s the pinnacle of responsibility. It means attuning to the whispers of your soul and respecting its desires. Embrace self-care as a journey to reclaim your inner strength. Tonight, ask yourself, what does your soul yearn for?” — David Scott
“The powers of the mind are like the rays of the sun when they are concentrated they illumine.” – Swami Vivekananda
“To the mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders.” Lao Tzu
Buddhist teachings refer to the “emotional cancers of the mind” as greed, anger, and ignorance—fundamental sources of suffering that obstruct our path to enduring happiness and freedom. To counter these poisons, Buddhism promotes the cultivation of generosity, compassion, and wisdom as purifying antidotes, leading to a cleansed state of mind and genuine contentment.
When a negative thought intrudes, we learn to pay it no heed, allowing it to dissipate as swiftly as it appeared. It’s akin to burglars fleeing an empty house upon realizing there’s nothing to steal.
This process also extends to the internal dialogue we maintain and our self-perception, whether negative or positive. Our interactions with others mirror our self-relationship. What annoys you about others, is often simply a reflection our own internal struggles.
Happy International Woman’s Day
“Let us give thanks for those women in our lives that believed in us; watered and nurtured the seed of hope in our soul. Shined their light on us and helped us grow into who we are today.” David Scott
Much of your strength as a woman can come from the resolve to replenish and fill your own well and essence first, before taking care of others.” ― Miranda J. Barrett,
“A strong woman is one who feels deeply and loves fiercely. Her tears flow as abundantly as her laughter. A strong woman is both soft and powerful, she is both practical and spiritual. A strong woman in her essence is a gift to the world.”
“Women in particular are so good at taking care of others. Self-Care is not selfish; it is about taking care of the care giver. The love and attention you always thought you wanted from someone else, is exactly the love and attention you first need to give to yourself. Taking care of yourself doesn’t mean me first; it means me too; you deserve the love you give to so freely to others”– David Scott
“Accept yourself. Love yourself as you are. Your finest work, your best movements, your joy, peace, and healing come when you love yourself. You give a great gift to the world when you do that. You give others permission to do the same: to love themselves. Revel in self-love. Roll in it. Bask in it as you would sunshine.” – Melodie Beattie
Sometimes later becomes never. Do it now. Do something today that your future self will thank you for.
“Time is a storm in which we are all lost.” William Carlos William
“Time waits for no one. Lost time is never found again.” – Benjamin Franklin.
Wake up with determination. Go to bed with satisfaction.
“You should never beg for love and friendship like water, but instead offer it like tea.”
“Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love.” – Brené Brown
Sometimes we’re tested not to show our weaknesses, but to discover our strengths.
“Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.” – Herman Cain
“We didn’t realize we were making memories, we were just having fun.” Winnie the Pooh.
“The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be.” – Marcel Pagnol
“Your thoughts have to understand one thing: that you are not interested in them. The moment you have made this point you have attained a tremendous victory.” ~Osho
“For many men, the acquisition of wealth does not end their troubles, it only changes them.” –Seneca
“You are not truly rich until you have something that money cannot buy. The happiest people don’t have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything.”
“There is no greater wealth in this world than peace of mind.”
“Anything that cost you peace is simply too expensive.”
“The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows it under his feet.” – James Oppenheim
“There’s only one thing more precious than our time and that’s who we spend it on.” Leo Christopher
“True friends don’t come with conditions. Love is meant to nurture and not to enslave.”
“Treat your relationship as if you are growing the most beautiful sacred flower. Keep watering it, tend to the roots, and always make sure The petals are full of color And are never curling. Once you neglect your plant, it will die, As will your relationship.” – Suzy Kassem
“The search for truth is an ongoing process. It is as if you are zooming in on a microscope of life, looking deeper at knowledge. The more you zoom in, the more you see. Socrates said, “I know one thing: that I know nothing.”, thus showing the wisdom in acknowledging one’s own ignorance. If someone says they are still searching for the ultimate truth, trust them; if they say they have found the truth, doubt them.”
“Pride makes us artificial and humility makes us real.” -Thomas Merton
“We do not inherit the earth from our ancestors, we borrow it from our children.” -Native American Proverb
“Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.” –Buddha
“Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations.”
“No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.” – The Buddha
“Life is an echo. What you send out comes back.”
“Happiness is where we find it, but rarely where we seek it.”
“We change the world when we meet the needs of others.” Kristen Welch
Ego says, “Once everything falls into place, I’ll feel peace.” Spirit says, “Find your peace, and then everything will fall into place.” (Marianne Williamson) “I am always at the beginning”- Buddha
“Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” ~ Buddha
“When I loved myself enough, I began leaving whatever wasn’t healthy. This meant people, jobs, my own beliefs, and habits – anything that kept me small. My judgment called it disloyal. Now I see it as self-loving.”– Kim McMilllen
“And what we can see if we look deep within is that the authentic self is the Soul made visible. Do not try to remake yourself into something you’re not. Just try making the best of what God made. The sacred art and craft of nurturing our souls and the souls of those we love is Simple Abundance soulcraft. Begin today by turning on the Light.”- Sarah Ban Breathnach
“No regrets. No looking back. Just hold onto life and move forward. We have no way of knowing what lies ahead…and that is what makes the journey even more exciting.”- Susan Gale
“Be kind to your body, gentle with your mind and patient with your heart. Stay true to your spirit, cherish your soul and never doubt yourself. You are still becoming, my love, and there is no one more deserving of the nurturing grace of your love.” ― Becca Lee