Happy Spring

“Clutter is postponed decisions that have to be dealt with. Not just the stuff on your floor but old ideas, unhealthy relationships, and bad habits. Anything that stands between you and a healthy life. Spring cleaning is a time to decide what doesn’t deserve to be in your home or life any more and then to make it happen.” – David Scott

“Clutter Is The Enemy Of Clarity” – Julia Cameron

Buddhist Story – Be the boss

A horse suddenly came galloping quickly down the road. It seemed as though the man had somewhere important to go.

Another man, who was standing alongside the road, shouted, “Where are you going?” and the man on the horse replied,

“I don’t know! Ask the horse!”

Explanation: The horse symbolizes our habit energy. The story explains the way we usually live, at the mercy of our old habit energies which have been established not by our intentional actions, but by our surroundings and mindless activity.

The horse is pulling us along, making us run here and there and hurry everywhere and we don’t even know why. If you stopped to ask yourself from time to time why exactly you’re running around so much, sometimes you might have an answer, but it’s never a very good one. You’re just used to it, it’s how we’re taught to live.

But as much as we run, it gets us nowhere. We need to learn how to take back the reigns and let the horse know who’s boss. You’re the boss, you’ve always been the boss, so start acting like it.

“Lord Buddha himself taught that basically, human nature is pure, egoless, just as the sky is by nature clear, not cloudy. Clouds come and go, but the blue sky is always there; clouds don’t alter the fundamental nature of the sky. Similarly, the human mind is fundamentally pure.” – Thubten Yeshe, Becoming Your Own Therapist

Smile, breathe and go slowly.” — Thich Nhat Hanh

“Be not afraid of going slowly, be afraid only of standing still.” — Chinese Proverb

“Slow down and enjoy life. It’s not only the scenery you miss by going too fast — you also miss the sense of where you are going and why.” — Eddie Cantor

“The trees that are slow to grow bear the best fruit.” — Moliere

“You’re only here for a short visit. Don’t hurry, don’t worry. And be sure to smell the flowers along the way.” – Walter Hagen

“Life is a balance of holding on and letting go.” – Rumi

“Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dream.” – Paulo Coelho

“We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.”— Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Learning to enjoy and flow with the tide without fighting with the ocean

“Man suffers only because he takes seriously what the gods made for fun.” – Alan Watts

Muddy water is best cleared by leaving it alone. Alan Watts

“Do you have the patience to wait until your mud settles and the water is clear?” – Lao Tzu

“Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.” – Bruce Lee

“Everything in life that is worth achieving, requires risk and should scare you just a little bit.” – David Scott

“May your pockets be heavy and your heart be light, May good luck pursue you each morning and night.” – Irish Blessing

“It takes courage to love, but pain through love is the purifying fire which those who love generously know. We all know people who are so much afraid of pain that they shut themselves up like clams in a shell and, giving out nothing, receive nothing and therefore shrink until life is a mere living death.”— Eleanor Roosevelt

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”— Rumi

“Love is of all passions the strongest, for it attacks simultaneously the head, the heart and the senses.”— Lao Tzu

“Love does not dominate; it cultivates.”— Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle

“The greater the capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the pain.” – Jennifer Aniston

“You know it is love when all you want is that person to be happy, even if you’re not part of their happiness.”— Julia Roberts

“The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love.”— Henry Miller

“From the day we arrive on the planet and blinking step into the sun. There’s more to be seen than can ever be seen. More to do than can ever be done. Some say, eat or be eaten. Some say, live and let live. But, all are agreed as they join the stampede. You should never take more than you give. In the circle of life. It’s the wheel of fortune. It’s the leap of faith. It’s the band of hope. Till we find our place. On the path unwinding, In the circle, The Circle of Life” ― Elton John, The Lion King

Misc

“Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.” -Helen Keller

Don’t look for someone who’ll solve all your problems. Look for someone who won’t let you face them alone.

“The humming bird only sits on the hand that does not try to grasp it.” David Scott

“A gift is pure when it is given from the heart to the right person at the right time and at the right place, and when we expect nothing in return” – The Gita

“It’s so empowering to say “This isn’t serving me” and walk away in peace.

Today I refuse to stress myself out over things I can’t control.”

“Life isn’t as serious as the mind makes it out to be.” – Eckhart Tolle

“Why do we close our eyes when we cry, dream, pray or kiss… The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen nor touched but are felt in the heart.” ~ Helen Keller

A Person’s True Character Is Revealed by What He Does When No One Is Watching. ~Sigmund Miller

“And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in.” – Haruki Murakami

“Be present as the watcher of your mind- of your thoughts and emotions as well as your reactions in various situations. Be at least as interested in your reactions as in the situation or person that causes you to react.” – Eckhart Tolle

“Avoiding triggers isn’t healing. Healing happens when you are triggered and you are able to move through the pain, the pattern and the story and walk your way to a different ending.” – Vienna Pharaon

“The moon does not fight. It attacks no one. It does not worry. It does not try to crush others. It keeps to its course, but by its very nature, it gently influences. What other body could pull an entire ocean from shore to shore? The moon is faithful to its nature and its power is never diminished.” – Deng Ming-Dao, Everyday Tao: Living with Balance and Harmony

“The goal of yoga and meditation is not to control your thoughts, but to stop them from controlling you.”

“Nothing glows brighter than the heart awakened to the light of love that lives within it.” – Guy Finley

“Real knowledge is to know and compassionately understand the extent of everyone’s ignorance.” – David Scott

“Compassion is to look beyond your own pain, to see the pain of others.” Yasmin Mogahed

“Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion.” Jack Kornfield

“Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace”

“We don’t have to agree on anything to be kind to one another.”

“You can accomplish by kindness what you can not by force.” – Publilius Syrus

“When you understand that hurt people, hurt people, it’s a lot easier to offer them compassion. It doesn’t condone what they’ve done. It just makes it easier soften your anger and break the cycle of pain.”

“If I have harmed anyone in any way either knowingly or unknowingly through my own confusions, I ask their forgiveness. If anyone has harmed me in any way either knowingly or unknowingly through their own confusions, I forgive them. And if there is a situation I am not yet ready to forgive, I forgive myself for that. For all the ways that I harm myself, negate, doubt, belittle myself, judge or be unkind to myself through my own confusions, I forgive myself.”