WEEK 19.1 (MAY 10-MAY 16) – IT IS EASIER TO PREVENT BAD HABITS THAN TO BREAK THEM
Mantra “Small choices shape my path—each moment is a footstep.”
Topic 1 – Seeds of Habit
Metaphor: The Garden of the Mind
A wise grandfather was teaching his grandson to garden and said, “Pull the weed while it’s still small.” Our habits begin the same way—tiny sprouts that feel harmless, even invisible. But when left unchecked, they grow deep roots. Some habits uplift, others entangle. We must tend the garden of our minds with the same care we give to soil and seed. Mindfulness is the tool in your hand.
Call to Action: Pause today and name one weed-like habit you can gently pull while it’s still tender.
Quotes:
“The chains of habit are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken.” — Samuel Johnson
“You’ll never change your life until you change something you do daily.” — John C. Maxwell
“It is easier to prevent bad habits than to break them.” — Benjamin Franklin
“Do things with love, and not just for love.”
“You leave old habits behind by starting with the thought, ‘I release the need for this in my life.’” — Wayne Dyer
Topic 2 – Habits Are Like Brushing Your Teeth
Metaphor: Brushing Your Teeth
We don’t brush our teeth because it’s thrilling—we do it because it keeps decay from setting in. We don’t wait until our teeth hurt to care for them. Daily habits—whether it’s moving our body, sitting in stillness, or speaking kindly—work the same way. The power isn’t in the excitement, it’s in the consistency.
Good habits are like small acts of hygiene for the soul. They keep your inner world clean, even if no one notices but you.
Call to Action: Think of one small thing you can do daily to tend to your inner peace. Maybe starting your day with a Gratitude Meditation or a Pranayama. Make it as normal as brushing your teeth.
Quotes:
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” — Benjamin Franklin
“You’ll never change your life until you change something you do daily.” — John C. Maxwell
“We become what we repeatedly do.” — Sean Covey
“The quality of our breath expresses our inner feelings.” — T.K.V. Desikachar
“Being positive means overcoming the negative. There is a big difference.”
Topic 3 – Letting Go of What No Longer Serves
Metaphor: The Lantern That Has Burned Out
Some habits once served a purpose—they kept us safe, helped us cope. But like a lantern whose oil is gone and flame has long gone out, we still carry them. Heavy, dim, unnecessary. Letting go is not rejection. It is liberation.
Call to Action: What outdated thought or habit can you finally set down today?
Quotes:
“It is always important to know when something has reached its end.” — Paulo Coelho
“Change is never painful. Resistance to change is painful.”
“The truth is, unless you let go… you cannot move forward.” — Steve Maraboli
“To exist is to change… to go on creating oneself endlessly.” — Henri Bergson
“You must allow the pain to teach you—but not overstay.”
Topic 4 – Which Channel Are You Tuned Into?
Metaphor: The Radio Dial
Imagine your mind as an old-fashioned radio. You can’t control what’s broadcasting, but you can choose which station you listen to. One channel is full of static—fear, overthinking, judgment. The other plays a calmer song—gratitude, presence, peace.
You may have to fine-tune the dial a few times a day, and that’s okay. What matters is recognizing when you’ve slipped into static, and gently turning back to your station of peace.
Call to Action: Throughout your day, notice which station you’re tuned into. If it’s full of noise, pause. Breathe. Change the channel.
Quotes:
“When the grass looks greener on the other side, it’s just life’s way of reminding me to water the grass I’m standing on.”
“Your diet is not only what you eat… be mindful of what you put into your body emotionally, spiritually, and physically.”
“Our anxiety does not come from thinking about the future, but from trying to control it.”
“Healthy plants yield abundant fruit… from a healthy person, happiness shines.” — B.K.S. Iyengar
“The hardest prison to escape from is our mind.”
Topic 5 – Building the Path as You Walk
Metaphor: Footsteps Through the Grass
Imagine walking across a field of tall grass. The first time, it’s slow and uncertain. But if you return again and again, your footsteps begin to press a path into the earth. Eventually, there’s a visible trail—worn in by presence, not force.
Mindfulness is like that. Each time you pause, breathe, and return to the moment, you’re pressing a path toward peace. The more you walk it, the easier it becomes to find your way.
Call to Action: Come back to your breath today—not to fix anything, but to gently wear that path of awareness into the ground of your being.
Quotes:
“Stillness is the altar of the spirit.”
“Few things are so pressing they cannot wait for a moment of breath.” — T.K.V. Desikachar
“Happiness doesn’t mean you always have a smile on your face. It means you have a foundation for your existence that allows you to be at peace.” — Wai Lana
“Open your hands if you want to be held.” — Rumi
“Whenever you are in doubt, it is best to pause.”
The heavy, thick feeling of morning breath – The minty fresh way your mouth feels after brushing your teeth
The sour smell of a yoga mat left in a hot car – The scent of fresh towels folded neatly from the dryer
The crusted plate left in the sink overnight – The feeling of warm, soapy water while washing dishes
The rough tangle of a blanket not changed in weeks – The coolness of clean underwear
A dark room with stale air and the smell of old cigarette smoke – A well-lit room with open windows and birds singing
The metallic aftertaste of flat soda late at night – The taste of crisp, cool water first thing in the morning
The blare of a TV left on during commercials – The sound of pages turning in a favorite book
The stiffness of a body that’s been traveling for days – The softness of a yoga mat unrolled with intention
The weight of unopened messages piling up – The satisfaction of an inbox emptied and cleared
The tight flutter of a shallow, anxious inhale – The rhythm of a deep, easy breath
The stickiness of fast food eaten in the car – The taste of a warm, home-cooked meal
The splatter of toothpaste stuck on the bathroom mirror – The clarity of a freshly washed window
The stickness your wet clothes feel after working outside in our heat – The cool freshness you feel as you just step out of the shower
Habits
A grandfather was gardening with his grandson, when he decided to share a life lesson, “See these little weeds son, if you pull them out now, just after they sprout, they come right out easily. Bad habits are a lot like plants and trees, when they are new like the sapling you can get rid of them quickly and easily. But if you let them stay and grow, their roots will grow strong and become like the old tree that cannot be removed.”
“The chains of habit are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken.” ―Samuel Johnson
“It is easier to prevent bad habits than to break them.” – Benjamin Franklin
“A fit body, a calm mind, a house full of love. These things cannot be bought – they must be earned.” – Naval Ravikant
General Mindfulness
“The quality of our breath expresses our inner feelings.” – T.K.V. Desikachar
“Stillness is the alter of the spirit.”
“Whenever you are in doubt, it is best to pause. Few things are so pressing that they cannot wait for a moment of breath.” – T.K.V. Desikachar, The Heart of Yoga: Developing a Personal Practice
“Depending on what they are, our habits will either make us or break us. We become what we repeatedly do.” – Sean Covey
“Do things with love and not just for love.”
“You leave old habits behind by starting out with the thought, ‘I release the need for this in my life.’ ” – Wayne Dyer
“It is always important to know when something has reached its end. Closing circles, shutting doors, finishing chapters, it doesn’t matter what we call it; what matters is to leave in the past those moments in life that are over.” -Paulo Coelho, The Zahir
“To exist is to change, to change is to mature, to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly.” – Henri Bergson
“Healthy plants and trees yield abundant flowers and fruits. Similarly, from a healthy person, smiles and happiness shine forth like the rays of the sun.” – B.K.S. Iyengar
“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” – Benjamin Franklin
“You’ll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine.” ―John C. Maxwell
“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.” -Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience
“1. You must let the pain visit.
2. You must allow it teach you
3. You must not allow it overstay. – (Three routes to healing)”
Yoga is a lot like life. It is a balance between holding on and letting go.
My greatest struggles, are my greatest lessons. I will always remember that I only have control over myself, and my choices.
I will stop focusing on how stressed I am and remember how blessed I am. Complaining won’t change my reality, but a positive attitude will.”
“Being positive does not mean ignoring the negative. Being positive means overcoming the negative. There is a big difference between the two.”
“I will get back up. Again, and again. The faster I recover from setbacks, the faster I’ll get back on the path of life.”
“When I find that I don’t have time for what matters, I will stop doing things that don’t.”
“There’s nothing selfish about self-care and self-love. I cannot give what I don’t have. When I enrich my own life, I’ll be life-giving to others too.”
“When the grass looks greener on the other side, it’s just life’s way of reminding me to water the grass I’m standing on.”
Before you utter anything, run your thoughts through three key filters and don’t speak unless you get three resounding YES responses: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it helpful?
“Not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path.”
“Happiness doesn’t mean you always have a smile on your face. It means you have a foundation for your existence that allows you to be at peace no matter what is happening in your life.” – Wai Lana
The hardest prison to escape from is our mind.
Change is never painful. Resistance to change is painful.
Our anxiety does not come from thinking about the future, but instead in trying to control it.
Do not choose the one that is beautiful to the world, but rather choose the one who makes your world beautiful.
The mind is like water. When it is turbulent it is difficult to see, when it is calm it becomes still.
What comes easy won’t last long and what last long won’t come easy.
“Open your hands if you want to be held.” – Rumi
Your diet is not only what you eat. It’s what you watch, what you listen to, what you read, the people you hang around… be mindful of the things you put into your body emotionally, spiritually, and physically.
“Isn’t it funny how we make rational excuses for being out of alignment?
“Why do we repeat behaviors that constantly dim our lights? Perhaps to show contrast to the good in our lives, but at what cost. Once we are aware of the contrast why go back there anymore.” – David Scott