WEEK 41.1 (OCT 11 – OCT 17TH) – HO’OPONOPONO – ‘I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.’
Class Theme: Freedom Within – The Art of Letting Go
Mantra: “Each act of letting go sets me free.”
Opening Reflection
Letting go is not something we do for others; it’s something we do for ourselves.
It’s the quiet decision to stop carrying what no longer belongs to us—to stop revisiting old scenes hoping for a different ending.
Whether it’s forgiving a person, releasing regret, or softening resistance to change, every act of release is a return home to peace.
The practice begins in the body—the shoulders that lower, the breath that deepens, the heart that dares to open again.
Tonight, let your breath become the bridge between your past and your peace.
Let your body remember what your mind has forgotten—that it is safe to let go.
Metaphor: The Caged Bird
There is a small bird that lives in a cage.
It sings each morning, but its wings ache from being still. The cage feels familiar—even comforting—but every time it looks to the sky, it feels a tug deep within, a knowing that it was never meant to stay small.
When we cling to anger, guilt, control, or fear, we become that bird.
The cage may have once kept us safe, but now it keeps us confined.
Freedom begins the moment we open the door and realize the sky has been waiting all along.
Topic 1 – The Space Between Thoughts
Reflection:
In every exhale there is a pause, a tiny gap where nothing is required. That is peace—available in every breath, not something to earn or deserve.
Tonight, we return to that space. To the quiet truth that we are already whole, even before we let go of anything.
Quotes:
“You find peace not by rearranging life, but by realizing who you are at your core.” – Eckhart Tolle
“The quieter you become, the more you can hear.” – Ram Dass
“Freedom is the absence of needing to be anything other than yourself.” – David Scott
Topic 2 – The Weight We Carry
Reflection:
Every emotion we hold becomes energy in the body—tension in the shoulders, tightness in the jaw, heaviness in the chest. The mind tells the story, but the body keeps the score. The body remembers everything the body has been telling it.
Think of your body like a battery. It stores every emotional charge—joy, sorrow, anger, love. When we don’t release old energy, it lingers, draining our power, just like a device left running in the background.
Forgiveness, breath, and mindful movement are how we recharge—how we clear the static so energy can flow freely again.
There’s a Buddhist saying: “Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.”
Every time we replay the story, we sip from that same cup. Letting go is pouring it out, unplugging from what no longer serves us.
Ask yourself: What story—or charge—have I carried long enough?
Quotes:
“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” – Gandhi
“To understand everything is to forgive everything.” – Buddha
“Anger will disappear as soon as thoughts of resentment are forgotten.” – Buddha
Topic 3 – The Illusion of Control
Reflection:
We cannot edit the past, but we keep trying—as if enough analysis could make it end differently. We call it paralysis of analysis.
Freedom is the moment we stop wrestling with what has already happened and instead bow to what is.
Acceptance is not surrender. It’s the wisdom to say, “This moment no longer owns me.”
Quotes:
“You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” – Jon Kabat-Zinn
“Let go, or be dragged.” – Zen Proverb
“In acceptance lies the road to freedom.” – David Scott
Topic 4 – Making Peace with the Self
Reflection:
It’s often easier to forgive others than to make peace with ourselves.
We replay our own mistakes like a broken record, forgetting that growth only happens when we allow ourselves to move on.
Every past version of you was doing the best they could with what they knew.
Self-acceptance is not weakness; it’s evolution.
Quotes:
“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” – Thich Nhat Hanh
“Forgiveness is the final form of love.” – Reinhold Niebuhr
“I forgive myself for being a work in progress.” – David Scott
Topic 5 – Compassion as the Bridge
Reflection:
Release may open the door, but compassion is what carries us through it.
When we begin to understand that pain always has a story behind it, our hearts soften.
We see that even those who caused harm were often acting from their own suffering.
This doesn’t excuse their actions—it explains them, and that understanding brings peace.
Quotes:
“When you see someone’s suffering, you begin to understand their actions.” – Pema Chödrön
“Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded; it’s a relationship between equals.” – Rachel Naomi Remen
“Only love can heal what fear has wounded.” – David Scott
Topic 6 – The Stillness Beyond the Story
Reflection:
Eckhart Tolle reminds us to “be the silent watcher of your thoughts.”
When we step back, we see that beneath every story is stillness, above every storm is sky.
Letting go doesn’t erase the memory—it changes the vibration of it.
The same moment that once brought pain can now bring wisdom, if seen through stillness. They say the wisdom is often just healed pain.
Quotes:
“When you forgive, you don’t change the past, but you change your future.” – Jack Kornfield
“In the process of letting go, you lose many things from the past, but you find yourself.” – Deepak Chopra
“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” – Rumi
Topic 7 – Freedom Within
Reflection:
When the bird finally steps through the open door, it doesn’t ask if the sky remembers the storm. It simply flies.
Release is that first wingbeat—the moment love becomes stronger than pride, and peace more important than pain. When your hopes and dreams become more powerful than your fears.
True freedom is not about forgetting; it’s about no longer needing to remember.
Quotes:
After 27 years in prison… “As I walked toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn’t leave my bitterness behind, I’d still be in prison.” – Nelson Mandela
“The practice of release is our most important contribution to the healing of the world.” – Inspired by Marianne Williamson
“You are the sky. Everything else is just the weather.” – Pema Chödrön
Closing Reflection
Release is not a single act; it’s a lifelong practice—just like yoga.
Each breath, each exhale of release, each moment of softening brings you closer to peace.
Every time you choose understanding over judgment, you loosen another bar of the cage.
Your body, like a battery, naturally recharges when energy is allowed to flow freely again.
Forgiveness, compassion, and breath are the current that reconnects you to peace.
As you leave tonight, remember:
You are both the bird and the sky.
You are both the one who releases and the one being set free.
“If I have harmed anyone in any way, knowingly or unknowingly, I ask their forgiveness.
If anyone has harmed me in any way, knowingly or unknowingly, I forgive them.
And if there is a situation I am not yet ready to forgive, I forgive myself for that.
For all the ways that I have doubted or been unkind to myself, I forgive myself.”


